What people think perfectionism is: I’m going to do this 1,000 times until it’s completely perfect, and it doesn’t matter how tired I am or how many times I fail. Everything I do is super precise and I have absolute confidence but also am super pedantic about getting it right.
What perfectionism actually is: If I don’t get this right on the first try I’m going to cry in a corner and call myself a failure for the rest of my life. I’ve gotten nothing productive done because of this.
See also: I know I’m never going to get this 100% right, so I’m never even going to try because that would be impossible to deal with.
i could not imagine being ariana grande like… to be blamed and sent threats for mac miller dying, then to be blamed for pete davidson’s mental health issues when she has ptsd herself from an actual bomb killing her fans at her concert… and she does nothing but try to continue to lift people up. and y’all take and take and drag and drag all to blame her for the actions of the men she chose to have in her life like… y’all don’t understand how insideious that is.
i remember watching y’all blame rihanna after chris brown beat her.
i watched y’all blame amber heard after she said johnny depp hurt her.
y’all forever blaming the women in pain for the shitty actions of men, and then go on to praise the men.
just say you hate women and go. just say you like having sex with women but you don’t see them as people, just objects for your own pleasure.
just admit you’re misogynistic and our culture somehow manages to always blame the woman. for her assault. her rape. her abuse. everything.
Legally Blonde (2001) dir Robert Luketic “To prepare for her role as Elle, Reese Witherspoon spent two weeks studying the behavior of sorority girls, as she did not wish to portray a stereotypical airhead sorority image. She states on the DVD commentary that they were all very kind and polite, and she enjoyed her time with them. She also observed women shopping from the café at Neiman Marcus, and attended law school for a day.”
Parents: damn weeds are choking our lawn again stupid dandili-
Me screaming out our sunroof: DANDILIONS 👏 ARE 👏 PURE 👏 AND 👏 SCIENTIFICALLY 👏 USEFUL 👏 LAWNS 👏 ARE 👏 STUPID 👏 OUTDATED 👏 REMNANTS 👏 OF 👏 CLASSISM 👏 AND 👏 COLONIALISM 👏 AND 👏 ARE 👏 ENVIRONMENTALLY 👏 HARMFUL 👏
